My time and energy is valuable and I am not a commercial Domina.
I must be wary of those who might wish to court my favor because he might think
that a lifestyle Domina who does not see subs as “clients” is a bargain alternative
to seeing pro-Dommes.
I am genuine and generous with my energy and compassion.
I know my worth, and that I am precious, and would be hurt and offended if I were
approached with anything but thoughtfulness, consideration and generosity.
You will be reminded once again that I am not a proDomme
and it is not my responsibility to provide service to you.
I have fantasies and whims and a compassionate and empathetic nature,
and I am looking forward to understanding whether or not we as individuals might
share symbiotic and synergistic moments.
You = sub male.
Me = Dom female.
The taking of power and the submission of will
should be delectable in and of itself.
The resistance between us should never be the hardest battle of wills.
It is the fight against our own will, our own pride, our own resistance
that makes the exchange such a growth experience.
Each small task assigned and completed has that function inherent.
I am aware of the battle within me. I’m sure you hear the static dissonance within you,
your will asserting itself against mine, impatient perhaps, reluctant perhaps, dubious perhaps,
yet unconvinced that you should continue in this endeavor with me.
That response might seem ostensibly natural. But is it natural for you?
What about the instinct to yield? Is it not strong within you?
I’m reconditioning myself, too. We will help each other, if we continue together.
To reinforce that which we are, through our joy and acceptance of one another’s role
and needs.
Do not be impatient to meet me as I will judge the best timing.
You need only to read these words to realize I am sentient and acutely aware
of each plan, each communication, each intention.
You expect me to lead as I am the Domme.
Therefore do not question, and wait patiently upon my word.
Your service and compliance should be assurance to me that you commit
yourself to serving my favor, it should prove to me you are worthy
of my compassion and discipline.
Follow my instructions. Read between the lines. Anticipate my need.
Be bold in your offers of service. While audacity is irritating, initiative is impressive.
Learn the distinction.